by Ruth Minsky Sender

Hope After the Holocaust

My Yiddish name is Riva. I was born in Lodz, Poland. I was thirteen years old when the Nazis invaded Poland and filled my life with pain and horrors. I lost my mother, my three younger brothers, aunts, uncles, cousins, teachers and friends. I survived, and share my past with young people through my books—The Cage, To Life, The Holocaust Lady—and by speaking in schools. The kids learn about pain and horror and about devotion amidst degradation and about holding on to hope when it was easier to give up. I pass on my mother’s legacy: As long as there is life there is hope.

I hear often: I could not survive what you did survive, having your mother torn away from you, becoming the legal guardian, at age 16, of your little brothers. I answer, we do not know how much strength we have until put to the test. Heroes or cowards are not born that way; they are created by circumstances. The kids tell me that when they ask about the Holocaust they are always told “it was terrible.” I take them by the hand and take them with me through the journey of hate, pain, survival, hope.

I had given a presentation in a school one day and as I was leaving a boy stopped me and asked. How old were you when all that happened. I looked at him and said, thirteen.

He turned pale and said, I am thirteen and he hugged me.

A young girl sent me an e-mail telling me that she had cancer and what helped her endure the pain and hold on was reading The Cage many times and the saying; As long as there is life there is hope. She will always hold on to hope. I do too.

I feel that by sharing personal experiences of pain and endurance we can teach young people to hold on to hope and learn from the past.

Ruth Minsky Sender, born 1926 in Lodz, Poland, came to the USA in 1950.  She is a retired principal of a Jewish Sunday school.  Remember Your Name, My Friend, poems she wrote in Yiddish in the concentration camps and translated into English is still unpublished.

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How Books Tell the World’s Bad News to Children

The articles in this special section:

Beware Sentimental Tripe

by Jane Yolen

Truth Soothes

by Susan Rich

Heroines Overcome their Demons

by Gail Carson Levine

Children: Stronger Than We Think

by Shira Geffen

Bad News from the Start

by Ellen Handler Spitz

Every Child Imagines Orphanhood

by Gail Hareven

Kaddish as Magical Incantation

by Susie Morgenstern

Cry for Someone Else

by Esther Rudomin Hautzig

History Helps

by Karen B.Winnick

Struggles of Underdogs

by Sonya Sones

Transmitting Determination

by Dorit Orgad

No Brainwashing

by Yehudit Kafri

Hope After the Holocaust

by Ruth Minsky Sender

Pain Is a Teacher

by Julius Lester

Forget Bibliotherapy

by Johanna Hurwitz

War in a Picture Book?

by Fran Manushkin

Discovering Hatred

by Leslea Newman

Don’t Plant Seeds of Despair

by Sami Michael

Between Hopes and Reality

by Etgar Keret

The Power of Anger

by Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso