In this issue: Jewish daughters and their African-American nannies tell stories of love and intimacy. Being the Catholic mother in a Jewish family. Praying for protection: sexual abuse by a Jewish father. The matronymic metamorphosis: what to name your child, and the importance of a mother’s surname.
by Brigitte Sion
Brigitte Sion on facing down anti-Semitism and misogyny in thie "neutral" country.
by Sue Willam Silverman
Spurred by Catholic boys’ charges, Sue William Silverman remembers sexual abuse by her powerful politician father and what it meant to her identity as a Jew.
Lilith asked readers to dig deep, for the first time, into these experiences. The results are stories of love and complexity. In these pages grown-up Jewish daughters begin to think through the lessons, the gratitude and the guilt of these intensely intimate dyads. We also listen to three nannies on the other side of these relationships.
Hyphenated surnames are yesterday’s news, Edgar Bronfman on why Jews should carry their mother’s Hebrew names in synagogue. Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz decodes the female derivations of Jewish surnames—e.g., Rifkin is really "the child of Rivkah." Tamar Newberger fights to give her baby daughter her last name, not her husband’s. Debra Rubin on being a female kohen. Plus a special adaptation by Marcia Falk of the Hebrew poem "Each of Us Has a Name."
Mazal Tov To:
Jewish Women Go Public About Israel
Israeli & Palestinian Parents Grieve Together
Woman of Power
Gender Equality Prize for an Orthodox Rabbi
You’re Invited for Dinner
Celebrating the Female Spirit
September 11: The Yahrzeit’s Lessons
Michal Rovner: The Space Between
Gender-Bending on the Yiddish Stage
Jewish Sex-Ed
Women: The Changing Face of Orthodox Judaism
Practice Safe Politics