In this issue: Adult daughters talk: the first, Carol Tavris, is not mad at mom; the second is a survivor’s child who learns to pray; the third reveals her mother staying connected by declaring who will get her brooch, who will get her blessing. That “coming out” moment in the Jewish family. Plus short stories from Israel by Savyon Liebrecht and Shulamit Lapid.
by Carol Tavris
The author’s book about anger challenged how therapists ply their trade; her adoration of her own iconoclastic mother might hold the clues to her theories. Here she shows why she can’t be mad at mom.
by Hannah Kliger
She also learns about personal history, about coming through to the other side of the Holocaust, and of confronting the possibilities of joy.
Who are the women writing it? What are they saying that's different from the men they compete with?
fiction by Savyon Liebrecht, translated by Barbara Harshav
fiction by Shulamit Lapid, translated by Barbara Harshav
With one Jew in ten either lesbian or gay, almost every extended family experiences what it means to tell, or be told, or to deny that a son or daughter is homosexual. Cantor reports the latest speculation on why this experience may be harder for daughters and different for Jews.
by Mary Cahn Schwartz
Who gets the brooch? Who gets the blessing? A contemporary mother-daughter team talk obsessively about what the mother wants done with her objects and assets--its their personal ritual, a way of staying close which has fascinating Biblical precursors in its lessons about power, control and love.
poetry by Elizabeth Socolon
One of the bible’s few warrior women tells what made her do it.
by Henny Wenkart
Introducing the new back page column highlighting choices and changes. This time: Yom Kippur in Lithuania: The "Sogerkes”
Women Fight to Pray
The Right to Die
Don’t Anger the Men’
“Women Against Racism:” A Personal Account
Women Rabbis Meet
Mazel Tov
Post-Partum S.O.S.
Obituaries